Tuesday, December 3, 2013

In class we have been discussing the challenges that newly wed couples face. There were a lot of things said and talked about but this list had a universal agreement on them.
1. Forming their own marital system.
2. Deciding on housework, work, debt ect. (In other words making big decisions together)
3. Resolving Conflict (In a productive and healthy way)
4. Fusion
5. Discovering how each person handles and deals with personal problems
6. Trying to make or choice between traditions and where to spend the holidays
These are just a few of the conflicts that newly weds face. Some of these people might not consider until they are faced with this conflict. The good news is there are different ways that couples can handle this types of problems and in the process help strengthen their relationship.
I think one of the most important things couples can do to resolve and prevent arguments and conflicts is to communicate. It might seem to simple to be true but simply listening to each other and then calmly express what you are thinking and how you're feeling can go a long way. Another tip that will help your marriage, is to keep our parents away and out of arguments with your spouse. Involving your parents in personal conflicts can cause more damage and and fuel to the fire. You need to work things out with your spouse on your own, which can be difficult, but it is extremely important in forming a healthy bond and relationship with your spouse.

1 comment:

  1. Good post! Do you believe that conflict can be positive? How can we best encourage open communication with those close to us? I like that you discussed the importance of genuinely listening. What is the difference between listening and active listening? I believe that listening is a Christ like attribute as when we actively listen we are truly serving others and demonstrating our love for them. If we do not already posses the skill of listening, how can we do so?

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